MALE MENOPAUSE: HOW TO SURVIVE – SURVIVING THE SEX CRISIS (SEXUAL DREAMS)
In many circles sexual voyaging, especially that of having an affair, is morally condemned but it has to be accepted nonetheless as a fact of life today that sexlife is freer than ever it was and that both men and women often enjoy secret sexlives outside their marriages.
But whereas a bachelor conducting an affair can be regarded as acceptable because there is always the off-chance that the affair is a prelude to permanence, that is, marriage, for a married man to do so he can only be seen in one light, bad. He is unfaithful, a sinner.
Given half a chance most men would jump to the opportunity of putting their sexual dreams into action. It’s history. A dalliance of this sort is balm for the ego. However, if you are a man of affairs, although no one can control your actions, be careful not foolish. To you, your sexlife may be simply an irresponsible pleasure with no further commitment but a wife, family, lover or boss may not think of it in such light terms as you do. Many people will feel emotionally hurt, shocked and let down. Remember the consequences and what it is you stand to lose. On discovery, with some justification, you may squarely blame the male-menopause for your lust, but will anyone else?
That said, even after the male-menopause has faded, do not forget that just as in the good old pre-menopause days, sex is not always as regular a part of daily life as a cup of coffee, scrubbing teeth or watching TV.
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